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Detroit Lakes, Latin TOP Hosting. your Minneapolis show at major mature adult hook. Hot amateur wants sex 20 Qualities to look for in a Lifetime Partner
Its easy to list what you find unappealing in a potential mate, but identifying the qualities that make someone desirable for the long haul is a slightly tougher task. What exactly qualifies a person to fulfill the role as your life partner? Not everyone runs a mental checklist before taking the ultimate leap some just know. But regardless of whether you choose to follow that instinct, it doesnt hurt to validate that he or she is the one.
To distinguish between someone whos good for right now vs. someone you want to wake up next to every day, consider the following list. If theres someone in your life with these 20 qualities, dont let go.
Supportive of your passions and decisions: He or she should be your biggest cheerleader and encourage you to pursue any endeavors despite how it may affect them.
Adds value to your life: Not in terms of monetary value your partner should contribute a quality that inspires you to grow, whether that means he or she is smarter or more ambitious than you. (But make sure you can provide the same.)
Can be completely silly with you: "Till death" is a long ride that should be filled with the most fun moments. Along the way, they shouldnt have a problem being playful with you or exposing his or her inner without inhibition.
Adores you: Even if youre not one who needs the validation, your partner should show how much they love and adore you without necessarily putting you on a pedestal.
Is willing to compromise: The two of you will never not disagree on something, so make sure he or she is open-minded to your needs and desires, too.
Treats your family just as well: If your partner shows zero respect for your friends and family, its hard to ignore, even if he or she has no problem showing their appreciation to you.
Values your opinions: Your partner doesnt have to agree with you at all times, but he or she should be able to respect your beliefs (without imposing theirs on you) despite them being different from their own.
Loves him/herself as much as they love you: The best partner is someone who can stand alone without constantly depending on your company or attention. He or she should be comfortable with themselves and be totally secure without you there.
Trustworthy: Even if every other aspect of your relationship is solid, the power of doubt is hard to dismiss. Problems down the road will be inevitable if youre constantly second guessing his or her honesty (and vice versa).
Exhilarates you, doesnt deplete you: Your partner should make you excited about life and its offerings. He or she should never make you feel bad about yourself or diminish your spirit in any way.
Has a life outside of the one you share: Its important for your SO to understand that you have a life of your own and to encourage you to enjoy things without him or her.
Doesnt hold grudges: Despite any bumps in the road, your life partner should seek to improve your relationship rather than dwell on any setbacks.
Brings out the best in you: Your partner should not provoke your inner worst qualities only the ones that make you a better you.
Loves all of you: This includes your flaws, especially. Your personality traits dont come à la carte so he or she should be able to embrace you as a whole, shortcomings and all.
Accountable: He or she should be able to put aside their ego to be held accountable for any mistakes. Your partner should own up to them rather than place blame on someone or something else.
Allows him/herself to be vulnerable to you: Communication will prove to be the hugest challenge if either of you have a wall up. Your SO should feel comfortable enough to confide in you with all of his or her fears and secrets.
Keeps you in check, without dictating: It can get boring when someone is in constant agreement with you for the sake of not wanting to upset you. When youre out of line, he or she shouldnt be afraid to challenge you and respectfully point out your wrongdoing when necessary.
Allows you to be you: Its difficult to be fully happy in a relationship when youre forced to suppress any part of you. You shouldnt feel restricted whatsoever, whether that includes being able to freely pursue your hobbies or to be your silly self.
Dependable: You should always be able to rely on your partner for anything, from emotional support to upholding his or her commitments. You dont want to have to waste time worrying about if theyre acting irresponsible.
Is easy to be with: Every relationship comes with its battles but by no means should it be a daily war that can get exhausting. Although the need for improvement is never-ending, your partner should be your counterpart, teammate, and best friend, and mutual happiness should come single women wants casual sex Rock Springs with little effort.
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So, please share with me how in the hell you can determine if the person you met has any or all of
these qualities or attributes if you make a decision based on a profile, picture or within 5 minutes
of meeting?
I see all the and ads of you wanting a relationship, yet you have so much baggage and
fear that you dont get away from the computer long enough to truly "meet" someone
Dating is ever so challenging, why are we making it so much more difficult .?
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